Renting is a tool. Not a moral diagnosis.
The original piece circled the familiar American-dream question: does buying make sense for every family?
Debt at this price turns "just buy" into lazy advice. Payment, taxes, insurance, repairs, closing costs, and time horizon all get a vote.
Renting is not failure. Sometimes it is the cleanest position on the board. It buys flexibility, caps surprise repairs, and keeps you from marrying a roof because an uncle with a polo shirt called it wealth building. Buying only wins when the full bill survives the math.
Run the all-in monthly cost, not the mortgage payment. Add repairs, insurance, tax creep, exit costs, and the value of being able to leave. If the buy case only works because appreciation saves you, admit you are speculating.